Remove the Negativity: How to Unfollow Wellness Accounts That Don't Uplift You
- Jillian Guralski
- May 28
- 4 min read

You followed the account because it promised to help you feel better. Better about your body, your habits, your lifestyle. But somewhere along the way, scrolling past their posts started to feel like failing a test you never signed up for. Sound familiar?
Wellness content is everywhere, and a lot of it is genuinely useful. But a significant portion of it does the opposite of what it claims. A 2024 study of over 1,000 young adults found that followers of health influencers reported significantly higher levels of distress, depression, and anxiety compared to people who didn't follow them at all. The content made them exercise more and eat more vegetables, yes. But it also made them feel worse about themselves.
That is not wellness. That is pressure dressed up in a green smoothie.
Why Wellness Accounts Can Quietly Hurt You
The problem isn't wellness itself. The problem is that social media rewards extremes. Dramatic before-and-afters. Grueling workout routines. Elimination diets framed as "healing." These formats perform well algorithmically, which means the content most likely to land in your feed is often the most intense, the most idealized, and the least realistic.
Research backs this up. Nearly two-thirds of the 100 most popular fitness influencer accounts promote body shapes or habits that are unhealthy or unrealistic to maintain. Only 4 to 5 percent of health and nutrition content on platforms like TikTok is produced by credentialed experts. And about 40 percent of users report feeling inadequate after comparing their lives to curated wellness content.
The accounts aren't always doing this on purpose. Many genuinely believe they are helping. But the impact on your mental state matters more than their intentions.
How to Know When an Account Is Doing More Harm Than Good
There's a quick gut-check that works better than any algorithm: notice how you feel after you see their content. Not during, not intellectually. Right after.
Ask yourself these questions:
Do I feel motivated, or do I feel like I'm not doing enough?
Do I feel seen and supported, or do I feel judged?
Do I feel inspired, or do I feel inadequate?
Do I feel good about my own choices, or do I second-guess them?
Would I be relieved if this account just disappeared from my feed?
If the honest answers lean negative, that's your signal. No amount of useful recipes or workout tips is worth a persistent undercurrent of self-doubt.
Unfollow, Mute, or Unsubscribe: Know the Difference
Each option serves a different situation, and knowing which to use makes the decision feel less dramatic.
Unfollow is the cleanest break. Their content disappears from your feed entirely. They won't be notified, and you can still visit their profile later if you choose to. This works well for accounts you don't know personally and don't need to maintain a relationship with.
Mute is the quiet option. You stay connected on paper, but their posts stop appearing in your feed. This is useful for people in your real life, a coworker who posts daily gym check-ins, a relative who shares diet culture content, where unfollowing might create an awkward conversation.
Unsubscribe applies to email newsletters. That wellness guru whose weekly email makes you feel behind on life? Click unsubscribe at the bottom. It takes ten seconds and you'll stop second-guessing your choices every Tuesday morning.
Platform-by-Platform: How to Do It
Tap their profile, then hit "Following" and select "Unfollow." To mute instead, press and hold any of their posts in your feed and select "Mute." You can mute posts, stories, or both separately.
TikTok
Go to their profile and tap "Following" to unfollow. For individual videos that don't serve you, long-press and tap "Not Interested." This immediately trains the algorithm to show you less of that type of content.
YouTube
On their channel page, tap "Subscribed" and then "Unsubscribe." You can also click the three-dot menu next to any video recommendation and select "Don't recommend channel" to remove it from suggestions without needing to be subscribed.
What to Replace Them With
Clearing out accounts that drain you creates space. The goal isn't to avoid wellness content altogether. It's to replace content that makes you feel small with content that actually supports you.
Look for accounts run by licensed professionals: registered dietitians, certified therapists, physiotherapists, and accredited fitness coaches. Notice when content focuses on what your body can do rather than how it looks. Pay attention to whether the tone is compassionate or aspirational to the point of feeling impossible.
Accounts worth following tend to leave you feeling capable, curious, or calm. They don't sell you a problem before offering the solution. They don't frame ordinary human struggles as failures to optimize.
Retrain Your Feed Over Time
One unfollow won't immediately transform what the algorithm shows you. Social media platforms are built to keep you consuming familiar content. After you clear out the draining accounts, actively engage with the ones that leave you feeling good. Like them, save their posts, leave a comment. This signals to the algorithm that this is the direction you want to go.
On Instagram and TikTok, you can also use built-in "Reset Recommendations" features to start fresh. It takes a few weeks of consistent engagement for the algorithm to recalibrate, but it does shift.
Think of it like cleaning out a pantry. You don't just remove what isn't working. You restock it with things that actually nourish you.
Give Yourself Permission to Protect Your Peace
There's a guilt that can come with unfollowing wellness accounts, especially when they're run by people who seem to genuinely care about health. You might worry it seems petty, or that you're rejecting good advice.
But curating your feed is not rejection. It's discernment. You're allowed to decide that an account isn't right for you, even if millions of others find it helpful. Your mental and emotional state is part of your health, and it deserves the same attention as your diet or your sleep routine.
Start with one. Pick one account, newsletter, or channel that leaves you feeling worse than you did before you opened it. Unfollow, mute, or unsubscribe today. Notice how you feel tomorrow.
That small act of editing your own environment is, quietly, one of the most wellness-forward things you can do.
This article is for informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health or medical advice. If you are struggling with body image, disordered eating, or anxiety, please reach out to a qualified healthcare professional.



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